September Slut of the Month: Lily

Lily Douce is one half of the Montreal-based duo behind Pornographic Love, an artistically shot, no-holds-barred portal into a real couple’s sex life. The project is completely DIY: Lily and Max are behind every aspect of their videos from the cinematography and editing down to the production and promotion. We asked Lily about love porn versus traditional porn, what turns her on, and who she looks to in the industry for inspiration.

Was your upbringing sex positive and did it influence your ability to freely exhibit your sex life for others?

Definitely! I was raised by my mom who has always been open about her own sex life… Not in a weird or vulgar way but in a beautiful way, celebrating openness about any orientation or choice I could make about it, as long as I respect myself and others. I guess unconsciously she raised me to be strong and confident about my sex appeal and I never ever felt ashamed about any choices I have made concerning sex. I truly feel lucky to have never faced judgment from her and I guess that’s why I’ve always surrounded myself with sex positive people and felt free to explore sexuality in all its forms.

What was the first video you and Max ever created?

The first time Max and I did a video it was actually a simple and very amateur blowjob/foot job for a clip4sale store I had in addition to my fetish solo site…
But the first official video we’ve shot for Pornographic Love was the one called “69 Reasons.” We were very excited to start that project and we’re very into it in an artistic way, we wanted that video to be perfect… Max was so turned on that we had to stop several times just to be sure that we had the shots we wanted before his cumshot…Let’s say that it was a very long foreplay session, very tantric.

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What was the last video you created?

The latest video we created was a very spontaneous lovemaking session by the window bathed in beautiful daylight.

Have you faced discrimination because of your involvement in porn?

I would not say discrimination but definitely some misunderstanding of what we do and a bit of judgment. Of course when people hear me talk about our site and realize how much I’m passionate about it and that I’m doing it with my boyfriend and that we show more than just sex but love too, it’s easy to make them open their minds. I’m happy to be surrounded with so many open-minded friends and family so I don’t really have to worry about it.

How would you compare your scenes to those created in a studio with actors?

For me our content is totally different than what most porn studios are doing. The main difference is that we are a real couple so instead of just sex you can also see our love and the real connection that only a real couple can share. I would also say that from a visual point of view, our work has a different aesthetic than the mainstream big porn studios. We certainly don’t have the same budget and capabilities so it forces us to be more creative… I love to say that we make “handcrafted porn.”

Do you keep certain aspects of your sex life with Max private and off camera?

We don’t really keep anything about our sex life private. The only thing I was not so willing to do on camera was anal sex due to the technical issues of stopping, with Max getting out and in few times to move the cameras. I love anal sex even if it is not a big part of our sex life but I was scared that it would be uncomfortable for me. But we finally did it! It was very fun and totally unplanned. We did not move the cameras and enjoyed the present moment. It’s surely not our most artistic video but definitely one of the hottest.

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What kind of porn did you watch before making it and what you watch now?

I personally was more watching amateur porn and some fetish videos. What turns me on the most while watching people having sex is when they share a connection and they are having genuine orgasms, that’s why amateur was what I liked. But at the same time the aesthetic is a very important thing for me, I love being artistically turned on so amateur porn was also annoying in a way. For the fetish videos, I’m not gonna lie, forced orgasm are a big turn on for me. Watching a girl (respectfully) tied up and forced to cum lets say by a nice man holding a Hitachi is something that makes me climax all the time.

Who in your industry do you look to for inspiration?

Definitely Ariel Rebel who is a true friend and a wonderful model and businesswoman. She is totally devoted to work and so talented in front of the camera but also so skilled for everything related to adult web business. She is a true example that hard work pays off. Also our friends Mike and Sophie from The Art of Blowjob are another example of talented and inspiring beautiful porn people. Regardless of the hardships they have faced lately, they continue to stand tall and create beautiful blowjob videos.

What’s next for you and Max?

We are planning to invite more and more of our friends into our videos – we just need to convince them! lol. That’s an aspect of our sex life that we didn’t get to show the world yet and we are very excited to involve more people in our videos. We also want to make movies instead of just scenes for our website. I would love to present a film in a festival one day.

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I am: Lily Douce

By Day: the perfect girlfriend

By Night: I’m more of day person so I love to sleep at night…But I’m always happy when my man wakes me up to make love to me unexpectedly…

My Vices: weed…I love weed so much that I had to stop smoking it

My Virtues: Generosity.

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The Present: is full of love

The Future: is full of promises

Favorite Flavor: butter

Favorite Feeling: giving pleasure

Favorite Fabric: spandex

Substance is: passion

Style is: attitude

Slut is: For me slut is beautiful! Punani power lol. It’s owning your body and it’s the legit right to be free of judgment for loving sex :)

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