December Slut of the Month: Maheen

I Am: An enthusiast of all things sexy. A music slut – all genres, all eras, and all genders! I tend to keep my insides cloaked with mystery due to the obscure complexity. But my outsides scream intense and chic, with hints of darkness and fashion freak. Like what I did there? ;-)

By Day: An entrepreneur but I’m also a numbers slut, a fitness slut, and a pop culture news slut. I also contribute to this amazing blog called Slutist as well as GrayNotGrey created by my lovely friend Brittany Lauren Gray.

By Night: Picture a pitch black sky with smoky haze surrounding a silent lake and the aromatic lure of vanilla musk. I’m always torn between the concrete jungle life and the simplicity of a cloistered life.

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My vices: My dirty filthy fucking mouth. And using that dirty filthy fucking mouth to be opinionated which usually pisses people off.

My virtues: As mentioned before, I’m an entrepreneur. I am working on a small business plan which I cannot reveal just yet. Although, I will disclose the fact that it is delicious and nutritious!

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The Present: Working on getting that booty to twerk. Professionally, I’m just picking brains of super savvy business owners that are like-minded. When I wake up in the morning, I always tell myself I must learn something new today, I must make someone smile at least once, and I must remember to breathe!

The Future: Hopefully getting a fancy Icon Award like Rihanna, nah but for real though, there will be wedding bells, some smelly diapers, and people’s lives being changed because of me. Well, at least that is my aim.

Favorite Flavor: The combination of spicy jalapeno and the zest of tangy lemons. And pretty much any sort of citrus!

Favorite Feeling: The feeling you get after a great workout and the feeling you get after hot sex, duh!

Favorite Fabric: I like a couple – silk, satin, lace, leather, and cashmere.

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Style is: Charisma and creativity. The beauty of contrast and the quality of appearance defines style. For me, antiquity with a flare for current avant-garde trends always holds my attention. There are moments where I have the grace of a Prima ballerina, the attitude of a Motley Crue groupie, the elegance of Audrey Hepburn, and the rauchiness of a porn star (or Miley). I am certainly a chameleon.

Substance Is: Not to be literal, but substance is anything that matters. It is something with true value and meaning. Substance is the sort of thing that can be a commodity we are so drawn to, and then all of a sudden can kick you the right in the crotch. I <3 substance.

Slut is: A word that has a stigma attached to it. It is misused. It is abused. It is, well, slutty. Since this is a feminist website, I think it is fair to say that the word slut signifies a socially acceptable entity in an unacceptable world. Being a slut gives you the chance to scatter about with power, freedom, strength, and courage. You gotta have balls to be a slut! To me, slut can be referred to practically anything. Obsessed with shoes? You’re a shoe slut. Love to eat pizza more than anything, like me? You’re a pizza slut. The term slut is so loosely used, it can never be determined as just one thing. In the derogatory sense, slut is a male or female that is promiscuous or loves to have random sex. Hey, if people like to have random sex, more power to you. Just please do practice it safe!

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Slut and feminism go hand in hand. Its unification displays the importance of being a woman in such a disapproving society. Being a Pakistani-American woman, it was hard for me growing up. My family was on the strict side when it came to sexual discourse. They actually never talked about it. I have Madonna, Prince, and Cyndi Lauper to thank for my sex education. Wearing makeup and being into fashion, I just always went against the grain. I was constantly breaking barriers, taking bullets, turning my cheek, and ignoring the negativity surrounding my forbidden demeanor. I was never a “slut” in the sleeping around sense, but I sure as hell was an advocate for having the liberty to be free from the stigmas attached to what a traditional Pakistani woman should be. And I still am!

Photos by Miami Mark. Motley Crue Shirt and INXS shirt from Something Kinda Wonderful

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