I suppose there is something to be said for isolation. Too much clutter and noise in the heart and in the head can be implosive. It can scathe you from the inside out until you find yourself rolling around on the living room floor, shouting about how Death is surely coming, counting the space between […]
He fingered me in the back of an Uber. I spent the duration of my dinner meeting squirming in my own juices. I didn’t want to wipe myself off. I liked sitting in and savoring it. There I was in this restaurant, wondering if anyone could tell that I was on the brink of an […]
*Special edition advice column! I’ve been working on this in my spare time the last few weeks for fun. I’m in Japan and am busy enjoying the experience so “Thrashing Against Obsession: Part II” will be up next week. XO* Recently a friend of mine was telling me about her newest sexual partner and how […]
“I could fall in love with a chair.” That is a real thing that I said to the guy I was sleeping with last week. His face fell as if I’d wounded him deeply and unexpectedly. I tried to explain myself but my words fell flat. How can I expect anyone to understand such an […]
I am extremely unsatisfied sexually as a Domme at the moment. Well, always. I know exactly what I want. I want a sexual partner that can transcend gender roles and power barriers with me. A P.Y.T. who will trust me to take them beyond the threshold of pain and into the pleasure dome (lol). In […]
I’ve been having some interesting experiences now that I am out on my own as an Independent Dominatrix trying to collect a niche clientele. A few weeks ago I was contacted by a friend of a friend who was looking to be Dommed for the first time by a pro. The person who reached out […]
http://instagram.com/p/nYqNsBtTpO/ (click the link it’s good I swear. photo by Mark Burgess // Instagram #beachDSM video by Dustin Senovic) Slave. Say the world aloud to yourself. “Slave.” How does it make you feel? As a member of modern society and particularly, as an American, I am hyper aware of the fact that my lofty privileges […]
